Scholar’s Starry Sea

Under Feng Ling's description, Wu Bin has a preliminary understanding of the field of adoption.

First of all, the big data on adoptions. Before 2005, the number of adoptions at home and abroad was about the same, but after 2005, the adoption data for the first time showed that the number of adoptions in the world was greater than that in the country, and the most peak reached 7900. The orphan was adopted abroad.

It is said that one out of every three orphans in the United States was from China at that time, and domestic adoption centers were also open to 14 countries including Denmark, Finland, Spain, and France.

According to Feng Ling's cognition, there are two main reasons why international adoption is greater than domestic adoption.

First, domestic adopters have stricter adoption qualifications than foreign adopters. The biggest difference is that domestic adopters are required to have no children.

Second, the domestic adoption system is very standardized. Unlike the adoption agencies in some countries, there will be many problems before adoption, so international friends are particularly willing to adopt Chinese orphans.

There seems to be something related to interests in other aspects, but Feng Ling, as a teacher, doesn’t know much about it, so I didn’t elaborate on it.

Looking at this Wu Bin probably has digested all this information, and Feng Chime threw the last bite of bread into his mouth and said with emotion.

"One thing I have to say is that in the adoption of Innate disabled children, the proportion of adoption by foreign friends is really much higher. One of my alumni is now going to the United States to study for a Ph.D. Said that she often goes to the Chinese compatriots who are adopted by American families. Most of the children in them are most likely to be disabled or even severely disabled, but they are very confident and not inferior, because they say they can have such a welcoming home. , Very contented."

Wu Bin thought about it after hearing it, and said his own opinion: "After all, kindness also requires a material basis. Basically, only those with better family conditions will have it. Adopt a few more such spares, but the fact that the country must have no children directly blocks the road for those families."

"What you said makes sense." Feng Ling nodded, from the supermarket again He took out a bottle of yogurt from the plastic bag and drank it with a straw.

"What happens after that? What will happen to the children who have not been adopted?" Pei Jiamin asked anxiously.

Qin Tao on the side saw Pei Jiamin in a hurry. He smirked and walked behind her and squeezed her face and said, "Don’t worry, even if you haven’t been adopted, the courtyard will be fine. Those who take care of it will also arrange for them to go to school, even if their physical conditions do not allow them to go to school, don’t we have to teach them."

Pei Jiamin suddenly held Qin Tao after listening to her and was pinching her. The hand on the cheek said softly: "You must all be angels."

Qin Tao was a little surprised after hearing this, but soon smiled and hugged Pei Jiamin from behind, "Thank you for saying that. "

Feng Ling also smiled with satisfaction at this scene, and then said: "When they are grown up, the healthy ones will leave the orphanage and go out to work. When the time comes, the vice president will Help them apply for low-rent housing."

"Then...what about those who can't take care of themselves?" Wu Bin asked.

"Then stay in the yard and do some manual work, and someone will take care of them." sighed then said, Feng Ling looked at Wu Bin and said, "At least in this orphanage, companionship is far greater than material Yes, so if you can establish relationships with those children, we are also very happy."

"We will." Wu Bin and Pei Jiamin said in the same voice.

"Then I look forward to seeing you again next week." Qin Tao said, squeezing Pei Jiamin's face again, and said as he squeezed; "The skin of high school students is tender."

"Hey, don't be like an idiot, okay." Feng Ling couldn't help but vomit.

However, after listening to Qin Tao, he squeezed it more excitedly, making Pei Jiamin not knowing what to do.

……

At 7pm, Wu Bin and Pei Jiamin left the orphanage after agreeing with the children that they would visit them next week.

Walking on the small road illuminated by the streetlights, Wu Bin let out a breath of air, his expression was a bit solemn, and he was really distressed when he remembered the child's reluctance when saying goodbye to him just now.

"Next week you..." Wu Bin turned his head and wanted to ask when Pei Jiamin was going to come together next week, but found that she was gone!

In eagerness, he immediately looked back, only to find that she was squatting not far away.

Relaxed Wu Bin patted walked slowly over his chest, and then heard a deliberately suppressed sob.

"Cry if you want to cry." Wu Bin took a tissue from his backpack and handed it to Pei Jiamin.

"I...I didn't want to cry." Pei Jiamin said and took the tissue in Wu Bin's hand. "Just...I met Yingying when I went to the toilet. She said she was She sneaked over and cried and said that she liked us very much and hoped that we could come next week."

As he said, she burst into tears with a "wow".

Wu Bin just silently took out another piece of paper and gave it to her.

With both hands wiping the tears of formation eye, Pei Jiamin took out a blue paper crane from his jacket pocket, crying and said: "She gave me this, saying if I will If you go, she will give me another one that looks better, ooh..."

Listening to Pei Jiamin's words mixed with sobbing, Wu Bin's nose was sore that he almost couldn't hold it back.

Yingying is the girl with a tumor on her face. She was sent to the orphanage when she was three years old. Now six years old, she has been recommended to adopters by teachers several times, but no one has so far. Willing to accept her as a new family member.

For an orphanage child, the probability of being adopted decreases by one point for every year older than one year old. The most adopted before the age of three is the most. The memory of staying in the orphanage, so many parents are afraid of "unfamiliar"

"She is so sensible...so cute, but she has to suffer such pain. It's unfair and unfair... "

Pei Jiamin cried louder and louder, as if to vent all his emotions.

Wu Bin took out another tissue and stuffed it into her hand, saying: "There are so many unfair things in this world, and all we can do is to accompany them more."

After crying for a while, Pei Jiamin finally calmed down. After wiping away his tears with paper, he looked at Wu Bin and asked: "You said before, you want to help them, have you thought about how to do it?"

"Not yet." Wu Bin shook his head, "If I want them to have a warm home, I still have a lot to learn."

Pei Jiamin nodded, wiping away tears , Seriously said: "I will also help you, although I don't know what I can do, but I will help you."

"That's really reassuring." Wu Bin finished. He stretched out his hand to Pei Jiamin: "Okay, get up, otherwise the uncle who is looking at us on the other side will probably call the police."

Pei Jiamin burst into tears and laughed, putting his hand on In the palm of Wu Bin.