Evil Awe-Inspiring

Seeing that Jojo's father was on the verge of an outbreak, I quickly asked him to enter the house, and then led him into a room. This is a study. Basically, I'm not a scholar. The study in my home is not very useful, but it is a good place to talk about some things.

After Qiao Qiao's father sat down, he took a few deep breaths, and his emotions stabilized, but his face was still unsightly. He stared at me and said, "Chen Yang, what is your relationship with Qiao Qiao!"

I haven't spoken yet, Qiao Qiao's father has stared at me fiercely, angrily: "Don't tell me that it is a friend relationship! Huh, my daughter won't take off her bathing suit in the swimming pool of ordinary friends!"

I don't know what to say or what to say.

What else can I say? Admit that there is a super friendly relationship between me and Jojo? At the same time, I also have a girlfriend of my own ... If I say so, I am afraid that any father in the world can't stand his daughter being "stained" by such a man ...

So denied? Not to mention that this is not in line with my personality, and I am not the kind of person who dares not to be. Besides, what has Jojo's father identified now, do I deny that it is useful?

He pressed firmly on the table, suddenly stood up, and then slowly walked towards me ... Just when I thought I might be slapped, Jojo's father's hand was resting on my shoulder. He pressed me hard, as if he was making a decision, and then he walked away and walked round and round in my study. Pacing, hesitating on his face, thinking.

at last……

"Chen Yang, let's be honest." Qiao Qiao's father took a deep breath. "I have a problem with Qiao Qiao girl. I have already had a headache."

"Although our family dare not say what a big family is, it also has some foundations. It seems that people like us, whether they are male or female, are not so casual. In your own words, you may think that we are It's a political marriage ... Hey! Actually, I didn't really want to arrange a political marriage for Jojo. "

Qiao Qiao's father looked at me: "I have only one request for Qiao Qiao. The man she is looking for must be a match against our family. If it is a kid from an ordinary family ... To be honest, I don't worry about marrying Qiao Qiao at all his."

"Hmm ..." I nodded vaguely. There was something in my heart: what did he tell me about this?

"It's not that I have a portal opinion, nor is it that I look down on ordinary people's boys ... It's true, in this world. There are certain things that you young people don't understand and can't understand." He said lightly: "闱 The householder told our ancestor The idiom left behind is actually very justified, but now many kids are ignorant of children. I thought that after watching a few love movies and a few love novels, I thought love was supreme. I can ignore all objective conditions. "

"Those stories on movies and TV can be made up casually. The daughters of rich people fall in love with the poor boys, or the young masters of rich people fall in love with the girls from poor places ... they can brazenly preach that this is love supremacism and love. Great, sublime ... Anyway, in this world, shouting high-profile is not costly. "Qiao Qiao's father said lightly:" However, those people who have no experience in life don't understand. "

I nodded.

He continued: "I like, for example, a girl who graduated from college. I fell in love with a man who only had a primary school degree. When two people started, they might have sparked because of the occasional friction ... The people in the family might object , Think that the education of a man is not good enough for a girl ... At this time, the young people who are surrounded by the love story 'educational influence' will preach the love first, and think that everything that organizes two people together is Decaying old obstinate ...

I nodded, as if it did.

"But in fact." Qiao Qiao's father waved his mouth. "The so-called heartbeat is only temporary, and if they are together for a long time, they will slowly discover that because of their different educational backgrounds, their Their hobbies, interests, and habits of life are completely different, and even talking is very different. For example, women are highly educated, they like to listen to opera, they like to watch stage shows, they like to watch ballet ... but these , Men who only have elementary school cultural standards do not like it. For example, men like loud noises, loud noises in public places, and swear words ... When these two people first met, they attracted her personality in the eyes of a woman. Performance, but over time, freshness passed, you will feel vulgar. At that time, maybe even a small movement, it will feel unpleasant. Actually ... "Qiao Qiao's father smiled: "There is a saying called 'love can tolerate everything'. In fact, it's also written by writers to make a fool. There is no all-inclusive love, love in the world. It is very fragile and must be built on specific circumstances and conditions ... If two people come from different cultural backgrounds, different qualities, different experiences, different habits ... then there is no way to produce love or produce It will not be strong, and it will soon break. This is what I call the door-to-door account, which does not refer to money, but means that all other conditions must be met and they must be equal and similar. "

I admit that he was right, really right, and very realistic.

After all, love movies are love movies. I don't say any money ... The so-called door-to-door pair is not narrow and refers only to the economic background of both parties, as well as the culture, quality, education received from childhood, living habits, and so on.

For example, in the country, it is difficult for a man from the north and a girl from the south to live in harmony. Even though the relationship between the two was very good at the beginning, this relationship cannot stand the test of life. The simplest example is that most men in the north are more masculine. The girls in the south are more delicate and sensitive. Such two kinds of people living together will inevitably lead to contradictions, especially when the original place of life is trivially polished. Breaking up is inevitable.

These words are hard to hear, but they are facts.

Those who sing the slogan "Love can overcome everything" are mostly little Mao children who have not experienced much real affection.

"Actually ..." Jojo's father said here, his tone turned: "When I knew Jojo was here with you, I thought a lot."

"Oh?" I smiled bitterly.

"Of course, you may not understand the psychology of being a father now, that is because you have not stood on my side, maybe you will understand after decades." He sighed. There was a bit of helplessness on the mature and handsome face: "Jojo is so weird, I don't want to hide it ... well, or. She is weirder than most girls. Especially her weird ones ……'habit'."

I didn't say anything-I couldn't say "Well, yes, your daughter is gay."

"So, when I arranged her marriage contract, I actually carefully selected it for a long time ... You have seen the young man Li Wenjing. He is excellent ... excellent in all aspects and his family background is good. From these He said he had almost no flaws. And he had to admit that he was a very attractive young man. "Jojo's father shrugged." Unfortunately, my daughter doesn't like him. "

... "I looked into his eyes:" What on earth do you want to say? "

"Say you." He bluntly said, "Since I knew Jojo was in Canada and was with you, I started thinking about new issues. You, Chen Yang, a young man, you ... uh, long It's pretty good. What's more important is that you and Qiao Qiao can get together ... Of course, the most important thing is the right question. "

"Uh ..." I think I can't speak.

"Frankly, if you were only in that position in the country, I do n’t even have to think about it, and I will simply reject you. Because I wo n’t let my daughter be good to someone at the bottom of society ... and Not because I am biased against people, but because of those four words ...,

"The door is right." I sighed.

"That's right, it's right. If you are a man of ordinary status, I need to think too much. Of course, I won't consider whether he can afford my daughter ... You see, I don't lack money. But I The consideration is whether two people can really live together. Two people from different social levels, they live together, eat, wear, use, say what, and do things, they will be completely different. During the time period, when love is still fresh, you can still tolerate each other, but after a long time ... it is inevitable that there will be contradictions. So, I can accept that when you were in China, you were my daughter's friend But, when her man, I will be the first to break up with you. "He said very surely, and did not have any concealment at all:" The simplest example is that when ordinary people are pasturing on weekdays, they are just friends. Eat, drink, and drink. But in our circles, communication is a kind of learning ... if two people come from different levels, sooner or later they will feel unaccustomed to each other's habits.

He was right.

To put it simply, Qiao Qiao will buy thousands of clothes at random. Ordinary men, who can bear such a girlfriend? Okay, or you can say that if she really loves me, she will be willing to accompany me through ordinary life.

Then I will tell you that you really don't understand life.

People buy clothes of 10,000 children, not to show off intentionally, not to intentionally extravagant ... but a habit developed from childhood, just a habit, and has nothing to do with "too poor and love rich". She is accustomed to clothes that will be designed by a special designer. When every brand is new, the merchant will directly inform her of the new style according to the most thoughtful p service model ... In this case, you let her To accompany you to eat food stalls, to accompany you to the night market to buy dozens of pieces of clothes ... She is not saying that she would abandon this kind of life is too poor, but she would simply feel unaccustomed and unsuited.

That's it.

I also heard that there were men and women from the south and north of the country who broke up at the end, but the result was just for the difference in simple habits: the southerners like rice and the northerners like pasta. The two sides really love each other, but their living habits are different. In the end, they ca n’t stand such a life and can only break up.

If you say, um, for my lover, I can tolerate eating rice (or pasta) every day ... then, I can only say that you don't understand life.

What is life? It's not romantic love, the illusion of infinite love ... life, is Chaimi oil and salt vinegar tea! !!

I'm a bit discolored: "Are you now ..."

"It's not a problem now." Jojo's father looked at me. "My first reaction was that Jojo lived with a man. This may not be a bad thing. At least she finally accepted a woman ... ... at least better than living with a woman. "

He was very direct, so I had to laugh hard.

"Then I checked you very carefully ... the man who lives with her ~ www.novelmtl.com ~ Finally I suddenly thought that this might be good news. Indeed, when you were in China, you were still in this The bottom of the world. But now that you've gotten around, you have a certain status, you have power, even the power is not small. You are rich now, and you have gradually entered the upper levels of the world. From the point of view, you are almost completely in line with this point. There are no flaws ... And you and Jojo are very familiar and very familiar. You may be together. "He looked at me:" As a father, Especially Qiao Qiao ’s father, after a long headache for her life-long events, I suddenly thought that you were actually good. Although you may not be better than Li Wenjing, you are indeed excellent. If you can become my son-in-law, this It's also a good choice. "

He looked at me: "Since I chose a man for her, she didn't like it. Then the man she chose also met the conditions in my heart, so why not do it?"

I froze, completely choked, took a deep breath, and slowly said, "Mr. Qiao ... well, Uncle Qiao, you mean, do you want me to be your son-in-law?"

"Exactly." He looked at me with a smile, but then frowned. "But, there are other girls around you now, which surprised me ... well, this is an accident ... ... but it seems to me that the girl named Yandi is actually not a big problem. "